Cessationist means they think the gifts have ended. The issue with cessationism is that the argument for it is weak: Basically that since the NT ended so did the gifts. Most people are “open but Cautious” meaning they believe in the gifts, but are cautious when approaching the subject.
Continuationists means we believe the gifts continue. Tongues are specific spirit led praise to God.
We should seek the gifts. The gifts are good, we need them to function as a body of Christ. No amount of gifting has value if you don’t have love. Desire earnestly gifts, they are good, but don’t focus on them.
Holy Spirit: Walking w/ the spirit – We are called to look to live in obedience to God.
Prayer: Calling upon the Holy Spirit.